Arlean Fern Mader
78, Maitland, Lunenburg Co. It is with great sorrow that
we announce the passing of our beloved mother, grandmother, mother-in-law,
sister and friend on January 11, 2009, under a full moon, at South Shore
Regional Hospital, Bridgewater following a very courageous battle with
cancer. Born December 4, 1930, Arlean was the daughter of the late Napean
and Charlotte (Langille) Robar. She is survived by her daughters Catherine
(Dale) Rafuse, Marriott’s Cove; Susan Toope, Pine Grove; Janet (Charles)
Stevens, Maitland; Annette (Donnie) Berrigan, Bridgewater; sons Allen
(Carol), Maitland; Steven, Lake George; grandchildren Alex and Gregory
Rafuse; Meghan and Lauren Toope; Courtney and Kevin Stevens; Sophie Berrigan;
brother Edison, Bridgewater. Arlean was predeceased by her husband and
best friend, Leroy (2000) after 41 years of marriage and her beloved dog,
Riley, in December, 2008. Arlean was a very hard working woman. Her life
was dedicated to her husband on their dairy farm and to her family. She
was famously known for her keen memory, her knitting abilities and her
cooking. Her specialties included hodge podge, cranberry sauce, strawberry
jam and turkey stuffing. She was a wise woman with a great sense of humor
and was always coming up with unique phrases and witty comments. She had
a very strong voice in matters dear to her heart and was not afraid to
speak. Heartfelt thanks are extended to Dr. Heather Robertson for her
wonderful care and compassion throughout Mom’s illness. We are also very
grateful for the support of the Victorian Order of Nurses (VON), Lunenburg
County Homecare Services, especially Denise MacAnally who was Mom’s primary
homecare provider and the nursing staff of the 4th floor SSRH. The love
and support of so many others during this sad time has been very comforting.
This remarkable lady will be very much missed by all who knew and loved
her. A celebration of Arlean’s life will be held on Friday, January 16,
2009 at 10:30AM in the Chapel at Sweeny’s Funeral Home, Bridgewater. Father
Ron Appleton will officiate and be assisted by Lay Minister Vernon Mossman.
Burial will be in the Garden of Rest Cemetery, Blockhouse, at a later
date. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Arlean’s memory may be
made, with the family’s appreciation, to the Canadian Cancer Society,
Lunenburg County Homecare Services, Canadian Red Cross or a charity of
choice through Sweeny’s Funeral Home (543-2587 or sweenys@ns.sympatico.ca).
Online condolences may be made by visiting www.sweenysfuneralhome.com.